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Making resolutions work for you in 3 steps

Making resolutions work for you in 3 steps

New Year’s resolutions:  we make ‘em and we break ‘em.  The start of the new year is a natural time to reflect and take stock of how things are going in life.  It is also a time to make glib decisions (“I’m going to lose 10 pounds this year”) that are little more than...

How to be alone

Maybe you saw the headline in the AJC:  Atlanta tops for people living alone.  The May 1 article noted that Atlanta is tied for Washington with 38.5% of households consisting of one person.  More and more of us are living alone, it seems.  So why does being alone seem...

Changing Sexual Orientation?

The leader of Exodus International has acknowledged what gay men and women have been saying for years:  it is extremely rare for someone to actually change sexual orientation.  How rare?  Exodus’s President, Alan Chambers (via equalitymatters.org): The majority of...
Thriving

Thriving

Ever notice how some people just seem to do well and be happy, even in tough times?   They are resilient.  They typically attract other people to them.  When they get down, they bounce back quickly.  How do they do that?  Some of it may be genetics, but we’ve got more...
“What does it mean to have a good life?”

“What does it mean to have a good life?”

Welcome to my new blog, which replaces the newsletter I’ve put out for a number of years.  I’m intending to focus on exploration of what it means to have a life that works well, is satisfying, and has meaning.  Someone once said that psychotherapists know a lot about...