by John Ballew | Sep 25, 2013 | Dating and single life, Relationships
I was recently interviewed by Brian Rzepczynski, MSW – The Gay Love Coach – on the topic “Magnetic Relationships: When Positive and Negative Meet & Mate.” You can listen by clicking here. Additional thoughts on the topic are here. 
by John Ballew | Sep 13, 2013 | Dating and single life, Relationships
Manuel (not his real name) is healthy and happy and living well with HIV. When he found out he was positive several years ago, he decided it would keep things simple if he only dated other poz guys. He soon found out that his heart didn’t share that agenda. “I’ve... 
by John Ballew | Sep 6, 2013 | Relationships
Your lights are on, but you’re not home Your mind is not your own Your heart sweats, your body shakes Another kiss is what it takes Addicted to Love – Robert Palmer Healthy relationships require balance, particularly when it comes to autonomy and... by John Ballew | Aug 28, 2013 | Emotional health, Relationships
We’re more connected than ever — technology, social media, etc. so why do many of us feel lonelier, too? This video offers an explanation that makes a lot of sense. what do you think?... 
by John Ballew | Aug 26, 2013 | Improving communication
When a couple approaches me for relationship counseling, nine times out of ten they mention trouble communicating as a source of distress between them. We easily fall into traps that allow communication to become an argument. Instead of finding a way to move things... by John Ballew | Aug 16, 2013 | Relationships
I’ve recently heard from three people regarding an article I wrote a while ago on closeted gay men. One man described himself as openly gay, but frequently falling for men who were either married or in the closet. This has brought him much frustration. Another man...