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Why Choose an LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapist?

Many gay, lesbian, and bisexual individuals seek out an LGBTQ+ affirming counselor when it's time to get help. As a gay therapist with over 30 years of experience serving the LGBTQ+ community in Atlanta and beyond, I understand why.

Not all therapists create a space where LGBTQ+ clients feel truly safe and understood. Sometimes, even well-intentioned therapists lack familiarity with the nuances of LGBTQ+ life, including the unique stresses we face, especially in today's climate. You shouldn't have to educate your therapist about what it means to be gay, nor should you ever question if you're fully accepted.

Queer clients often explore experimental or non-traditional sexual and relational experiences like non-monogamy or polyamory. Additionally, same-sex couples who are parents can face particular challenges. Many find it simply easier to talk to a gay therapist because they don't have to explain their lived experience as a gay, lesbian, or bisexual person. This can make therapy feel inherently safer.

Research indicates that LGBTQ+ individuals often experience higher levels of stress, anxiety, depression, and substance use issues compared to the general population, likely due to the impact of homophobic experiences. Crafting the life we desire can, at times, require extra effort.

While I work with a diverse range of individuals, LGBTQ+ people consistently make up about half of my clientele. I am comfortable with and knowledgeable about gender issues, kink, and non-traditional relationship structures.

Above all, my LGBTQ+ clients know they are understood and supported. Clients describe me as nonjudgmental and compassionate. Good therapy, however, extends beyond just support. I am deeply engaged with my clients, aiming to help them increase their self-understanding and, most importantly, collaborate to make their lives better.

I'm a member of the LGBTQ Therapist Resource in Atlanta.